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Black, Queer, & .... is LaRae and Schmian’s way of filling in the blanks as they discuss their navigation through different issues while being a queer, black, same gender loving couple. They talk about a range of topics from parenting, to religion, to working in white spaces, to dealing with mental health- the list is literally endless!
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Saturday Jun 20, 2020
Don't Call It A Comeback!
Saturday Jun 20, 2020
Saturday Jun 20, 2020
Whew chile! It's been a long ass minute, but through many dangers, toils, snares, a pandemic, quarantine, and injustice- we are finally back with a new episode. Thanks for listening in... and lets not forget- All Black Lives Matter!
Monday Apr 13, 2020
Healing from Past Sexual Trauma... and Other Shit
Monday Apr 13, 2020
Monday Apr 13, 2020
Quarantine thoughts... How do we do we deal with and heal from the baggage of past sexual trauma- especially when we are now in healthy relationships? Can some of this trauma be eliminated if adults stop over sexualizing our children and just let them be free spirits and dare we say, children???
Tuesday Mar 03, 2020
When Did You Realize, Acknowledge, or Embrace Your Queerness?
Tuesday Mar 03, 2020
Tuesday Mar 03, 2020
We missed ya'll!!! Our home is pneumonia free, cold free, done with birthdays, engagement celebrations, and finally getting back to normal! This week we're talking about when we first realized or acknowledged that we were queer.... come on in and listen to our very different stories.
Wednesday Jan 29, 2020
It's Been a Minute... but SURPRISE!!!
Wednesday Jan 29, 2020
Wednesday Jan 29, 2020
Did ya'll miss us?! We feel like it's been forever since we released an episode, but we were over here dealing with Christmas colds, birthday pneumonia, and an ENGAGEMENT! That's right- we're engaged and talking about our sappy ass happiness.
Wednesday Jan 01, 2020
Healing from Our Childhoods & Finding Chosen Family
Wednesday Jan 01, 2020
Wednesday Jan 01, 2020
New year, new episode! On this weeks episode we're talking about how we heal from childhood hurt and trauma, letting go of toxic people (friends and family included), and finding safety in chosen family.
Tuesday Dec 10, 2019
Black Trans Visibility: An Intimate Convo w/Cousin Jewly
Tuesday Dec 10, 2019
Tuesday Dec 10, 2019
A couple months ago we ventured out to Brooklyn, New York to visit family and attend a wedding. Since I was young, one of my favorite things about New York was seeing my cousin Jewly. This trip we got to sit down with some cocktails and chicken, and have an intimate conversation with Jewly about trans visibility, family, and the impact of Pose.
Friday Nov 15, 2019
Dealing w/Anxiety & Learning to Let Go
Friday Nov 15, 2019
Friday Nov 15, 2019
We're sitting down to talk about our anxieties, how we cope, and learning to let go of the things that we love, but don't necessarily love us.
Tuesday Nov 05, 2019
Protecting & Loving Trans Women w/Jaila Simms
Tuesday Nov 05, 2019
Tuesday Nov 05, 2019
An intimate conversation with singer/songwriter, Jaila Simms. You may know Qing Jaila as the winner of Diddy's "Making His Band," background singer for Faith Evans, Grammy nominated songwriter, or GLAAD Award nominee- but she is also a solo artist and fierce activist in the trans community, using her music to uplift the queer community.
Wednesday Oct 23, 2019
Toxic Masculinity from a Pastors Perspective
Wednesday Oct 23, 2019
Wednesday Oct 23, 2019
We had the opportunity to sit down with Rev. Kamal Hassan- a spiritual leader, educator, and community servant in the Oakland/San Francisco Bay Area. He is an unapologetic advocate for inclusivity regardless of one's sexuality, sex or gender. Though toxic masculinity is the topic for the week, make no mistake, Rev. Kamal is a strong ally for the (queer) community. He leads the charge for black cisgender men, in positions of leadership, across the bay area and beyond.
Tuesday Oct 15, 2019
Twitchcon = Geeky Gamer Fun
Tuesday Oct 15, 2019
Tuesday Oct 15, 2019
This is the episode Schmian has been on my case about! She's so excited to talk about her experience at Twitchcon and the everyday homophobia and racism in the gaming world.